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Castro & Ignatius.FBNDPhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03937570599343273313noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7542276858389838938.post-56099222919902815232013-07-29T15:36:00.000+00:002013-07-29T15:40:42.548+00:00HomeGrown<br />
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At the risk of sounding pretentious, elitist, ethnocentric, bougie or a combination of the aforementioned, I’m gonna say this: I don’t want my kids growing up in America. </div>
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I come from a large family and I have four brothers and a sister. I’m the youngest, since my <a href="http://waterforbreakfast.tumblr.com/post/805656415/thoughts-raging-in-my-head" style="-webkit-transition: color 0.3s; border-bottom-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #006699; margin: 0px; outline: none; text-decoration: none; transition: color 0.3s;">youngest sibling passed</a>, and everyone else is considerably older. Because of this, I’m an aunt to quite a few children, and almost all are US born. US <strong style="margin: 0px;">born</strong> is never the issue, but US <strong style="margin: 0px;">raised</strong> can be…</div>
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I don’t mean to generalize, I know too many US born and raised people who are humble, appreciative of what they get and very considerate of others. But hey, every time you express an opinion, it’s at the risk of seeming to make a generalization, isn’t it?</div>
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My nieces and nephews exhibit some traits sometimes that I know very well are not from their parents, and since we are all products of our environment, where else could these be coming from but the external <strike style="margin: 0px;">American</strike> environment?</div>
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They’ll break something, spill it or damage it in another way, and won’t miss a beat in announcing that you can ‘just buy another one’. They feel maltreated if they don’t get to go to an amusement or water park or have some cookies or ice-cream, as opposed to being grateful that they do.</div>
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Children where I grew up, are not as picky about food, share more, play nice with their toys and are very generous. Sometimes, my niece would rather cry than let her own brother play with a toy that she ‘owns’. “‘It’s not faiiir’, ‘i got here first’, ‘but it’s myyy toy’" Homegirl doesn’t realize she’s never purchased anything in her life. I see the same behavior manifested several years later in 20-something year-old Americans who would blow a gasket over letting anyone share some of their food, electronics, car etc. The quality of generosity is just not something an American upbringing emphasizes, in my honest opinion. This is why even your best friend can ask you for gas money, after driving somewhere where they were going regardless. I drive in Ghana, but before I did, friends picked me up from home and dropped me off ALL the time, and I am still yet to hear any of them ask anyone for gas money. I want my kids to pay it forward, I want them to believe in The Golden Rule, to love the people around them, be grateful, and above all, loyal. One for all, all for one, because there is really nothing like being totally loyal to others, and having them do the same for you.</div>
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I truly love my nieces and nephews, as if they were my own children, and sometimes it makes me sad when they make proud statements about how American they are, and depreciating ones about Ghana. They have little to no desire to be ‘Ghana people’, as they call it, and I can’t blame them. The American media would rather they be anything <em style="margin: 0px;">but</em> African. I know that when they are old enough though, and finally develop some common sense, maybe around the time they go to college, a real <em style="margin: 0px;"><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sankofa" style="-webkit-transition: color 0.3s; border-bottom-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #006699; margin: 0px; outline: none; text-decoration: none; transition: color 0.3s;">Sankofa</a></em> will occur. They will find that their culture will suddenly become more important to them and they will do everything they can to learn more about Ghana from their parents, and tell their friends what their names mean. Until then though, they can eat their mac n cheese, while my siblings and I sit and chat about Saturday evening trips to Labone junction for fried yam and kelewele.</div>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><i>I loved and I lost, oh how I cried when my heart broke....</i></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br /></span><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">I've decided to tell truth and there is no going back, though it hurts to remember, sharing eases the pain. It makes it a little bearable, I can close my eyes at night now, no more lying awake at night because everything reminds me of her. The sheets smell of her, I smell of her, my whole world was her. I'm going off topic again I know but if you will bear with me a while longer, I promise to tell you the saddest story you have heard in a while...</span><br />
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You have heard and seen it all before, on the TV, on the radio, in books and from people you know.<br />
They all tell you how you will know it when you meet the right one ,how it's like nothing you've ever felt before, how you suddenly feel complete. I didn't feel any of those things. At least not at the beginning and when I finally realized I was in love, she was gone....<br />
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I did not fall in love at first sight, though she did that night. I could feel it in the way she didn't want to let go, the way she kept us talking so I wouldn't leave. I should have known, I should have seen it for what it was , but my naivete was beyond measure so to me, she was just another conquest. Another one falling for my charm and that innocent face I show them all, the one that makes them just want to hold me and protect me. Looking back now, all those games were not necessary, I could done anything and she would have love me anyway but I tried to play the game of hearts and I lost terribly...<br />
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I've decided to tell the truth so I would be lying to you if I said I didn't feel anything for her, no that would be a lie and I promised not lie to you, I trust you, after all there's honor among thieves. I did feel something, only it was not love but victory. When she let me into her heart and where no man had been before, I was ecstatic. I had finally won, the patience had paid off and it was time to start looking for an out. So the fights started, the lies, the other women, her tears , oh her tears. I can still hear her sobs, the look in her eyes, her lips beginning to form the words "please" as I walk away, I can't forget that day no matter how hard I try, my conscience won't let me....<br />
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A little bit of it rubs off you trust me, while I was making her fall in love, I was falling in love too. When I finally realized it she was gone. See, she has moved on now, she wants nothing to do with me now, she has a new man in her life . I feel everything she ever felt multiplied two fold, I want in now but sadly that door is closed. A little bit of me rubbed off her too, the last time we spoke she promised not to ever love again. Every man she dates will just be an object to her now, to be used and forgotten like I used I used and forgot her....<br />
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My conscience will not let me forget I ruined another human being...<br />
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FBNDPhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03937570599343273313noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7542276858389838938.post-12284994491619397252013-06-06T17:25:00.002+00:002013-06-12T22:08:20.063+00:00Thoughts...<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<i><b><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="color: #222222;">Those of you who follow me on Instagram know I've had a busy week, I was due some vacation time at work so I took time off to visit a few states whilst en-route to support my friend in Boston MA. Like i said, it's been a busy week. Any ways, I'm flying back home and having a moment of reflection thousands of feet up in the air. I mean why now ? It's definitely not because of a lack of opportunity, I sleep more than anyone I know so why couldn't this just have happened in the form a dream ? </span></span><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">I'm trying so hard not think about plane crashes right now.</span></span></b></i><br />
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<i><b><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">So I'm on this plane and thinking about how much I've accomplished in my life, from where things stand, I think I've be slacking. Introspection is not my forte, because i hate looking at my self too closely. You see all those little things you dislike in people ? Turns out you have some of those same traits and in some cases even worse, so I try to put off the whole looking at your life thing for as long as I can.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">The problem with that is, it's like failing to clean up your room. When you finally get down to it, you realize how much filth you've been living in and find all kinds of stuff; some you thought you had lost or just simply forgotten about. My life is not that much of a mess but there's so much unfinished business back there that I'm afraid it take me a long time to sort things out.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;"><br /></span></span></b></i><br />
<i><b><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="color: #222222;">My dad never misses an opportunity to remind of how accomplished he was at my age and I never forget to remind him we are in the 21st century . The rules of his generation don't apply to mine. Back in the day all you need was a little education, some business sense and you were set with an OK job. Now, a bachelors degree is like a kindergarten certificate. I'm exaggerating of course but if you've graduated from college and can't find a job, what the use of that Bsc. ?</span></span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;"><br /></span></span></b></i><br />
<span style="background-color: white;"><span style="color: #222222; font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><i><b>Seems we are about to land and baggage claim is going to keep me from any more introspection. Hoping this piece of metal lands safely, I'll complete my ashes post and some other stuff I've been meaning to do for a while now. Till then it's adios from the FB who NDP.</b></i></span></span>FBNDPhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03937570599343273313noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7542276858389838938.post-16379970799687067232013-05-26T22:23:00.001+00:002013-06-06T17:26:25.305+00:00Need vs Want<div>
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<i><b><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">One of my lecturers in college once told me that a child's character is formed by the age of two, anything that happens afterwards is just building up on the foundation. I don't know how true this is but I remember telling me myself that it was implausible. Times change, things change, people change. </span></b></i></div>
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<span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><i><b>We always tell ourselves the best lies, because apparently those are the only ones we are willing to believe. Funny how all the resolutions fly out the door when the right person comes along. They say the right words, do all the right things, dang! They even smell great and before you know it you are serving them your heart on a silver platter. It's happened to almost all of us and since nothing in written in stone, it's bound to happen again. </b></i></span></div>
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<span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><i><b> I want person who does this and not that. Translation; I need somebody. </b></i></span></div>
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FBNDPhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03937570599343273313noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7542276858389838938.post-16930535619840190762013-05-01T05:40:00.002+00:002013-05-01T05:40:45.935+00:00The lucky OnesWe all know a lucky one, growing up it was that kid that never seemed to try but was great at all the games you played. In school it was that student that you never saw with a textbook, who skipped class as much as anyone and yet always came first in exams. It's that dude at your office that never does any work yet is your boss's favorite. They are those for whom things just work.<br />
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Thinking about it, it seems sort of unfair. Why do some of some us have to work hard for things some people are just 'given'? You kill your self at the gym just to stay in shape but that friend of yours eats anything she wants and never seems to gain any weight. Some people are just born to the 'right' parents with the right of genes and some girls have to actually beat boys off with sticks; the unfairness of it all.<br />
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In the jungle as well as life, there's an order to everything. There's the predator, the prey, the go between and ones who don't belong anywhere. If the lucky ones are the lions of life then it just makes me wonder where the rest of us stand. Lets be realistic, most of us are never going to be as rich as bill gates or have Ryan Reynolds' looks, like Kendrick Lamar said," this shit don't happen to everybody". Very true mr Lamar, so very true.<br />
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You are either prey, serving up prey or an outcast, frankly I think the outcasts are better off than prey. Me, I like to think of my self as a facilitator, a sever, a waiter if you will,it's miles above prey in pay, and its has benefits like life Assurance :)<br />
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Before you go thinking this dude doesn't believe in himself, I would like to use this opportunity as a metaphorical red light. Stop right there, yes you reader, I'm one of the most self assured people you'll ever meet, In fact, if egos were buildings, mine would probably be a spacecrapper, ask my fellow blogger if you don't believe me :)<br />
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That being said, I believe to be truly happy, you need to know your place in the scheme of things.<br />
Find where you belong and claw your way up, or in the case of the lion, just eat everyone else.FBNDPhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03937570599343273313noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7542276858389838938.post-29516679696303900752013-03-28T06:10:00.001+00:002013-03-28T06:10:31.672+00:00Genesis....Another old one .....<br />
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><i>Growing up where i did taught me not a few lessons</i></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><i>Through it all, i held unto my dreams tight</i></span><br />
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><i>Though i was still learning to distinguish wrong from right</i></span><br />
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><i>As to some of the things I've seen ,</i></span><br />
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><i>I imagine I've done worse just to feel free</i></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><i>From classrooms where the lights were dim</i></span><br />
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><i>To friends who were not what they seemed</i></span><br />
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><i>From girls i thought i loved</i></span><br />
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><i>To girls who were easy to be had</i></span><br />
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><i>I talked the talk, walked the walk, anything just to look the part</i></span><br />
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><i>though sometimes(not often) it went just a little too far</i></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><i>I lived for the day when i would get the recognition</i></span><br />
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><i>that would draw to me all the pretty girls' attention</i></span><br />
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><i>After all,how much more was there to life when you were 13 ?</i></span><br />
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><i>Having fun, innocently doing what some would now call flirting.</i></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><i>Ive had my moments, atonements, downfalls and catcalls</i></span><br />
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><i>Tested myself hard just to see if i had the balls</i></span><br />
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><i>Grew to know me, hate me, love me, and finally accept me</i></span><br />
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><i>learnt to succeed by being me</i></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><i>Now am at that crossroads you get to when you are 20</i></span><br />
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><i>Time for some self inspection</i></span><br />
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><i>Days ahead ? i know I've still got plenty</i></span><br />
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><i>Days behind ? hope those weren't too dirty</i></span><br />
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><i>I've paid my dues and come of age</i></span><br />
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><i>If where i grew up taught me anything,</i></span><br />
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FBNDPhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03937570599343273313noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7542276858389838938.post-81414920509498596612013-03-12T06:58:00.001+00:002013-03-12T06:58:06.593+00:00Waking Sorrows <i><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: large;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br /></span>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="color: #351c75;">It's 2am and i can't sleep. </span></span></span></i><br />
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="color: #351c75;">I am lying here thinking about my life, the people i've hurt, those who've hurt me and others am yet to hurt even more. </span></span></span></i><br />
<i><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: large;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="color: #351c75;"><br /></span></span>
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="color: #351c75;">Make no mistake, i have control over every action i take, every choice i make. Yet sometimes i feel as though it is all beyond my control.</span></span></span></i><br />
<i><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: large;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="color: #351c75;"><br /></span></span>
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="color: #351c75;">It hurts when i look into the eyes of people i've disappointed, people who love me so much, they are willing to forgive mistake after mistake and over look failure after failure.</span></span></span></i><br />
<i><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: large;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="color: #351c75;"><br /></span></span>
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="color: #351c75;">when I look at those who have hurt me, i imagine the worst possible ways to hurt them back, for mine is an unforgiving heart. </span></span></span></i><br />
<i><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: large;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="color: #351c75;"><br /></span></span>
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="color: #351c75;">The misery of all my faults weigh me down with such force that, i have dug a pit in the deepest part of me and cast it all down. </span></span></span></i><br />
<i><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: large;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="color: #351c75;"><br /></span></span>
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="color: #351c75;">In its place i have woven for my self,a fabric of lies that sum up my world,so that when i look at world around me, i am not shamed by what I've become. </span></span></span></i><br />
<i><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: large;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="color: #351c75;"><br /></span></span>
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="color: #351c75;">I am faithless;i know there is a God, i know there is a devil. I just don't believe in them too much. </span></span></span></i><br />
<i><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: large;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="color: #351c75;"><br /></span></span>
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="color: #351c75;">I am doomed; for i feel I've already committed the blunder of my life 5 times.</span></span></span></i><br />
<i><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: large;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="color: #351c75;"><br /></span></span>
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="color: #351c75;">I know second chances do not come often yet i pray with all my heart for one. Pray with me, and by the end of the year we'll know if i've been given a new slate.</span></span></span></i><br />
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"> FBNDP </span>FBNDPhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03937570599343273313noreply@blogger.com1